So what's the actual difference?
When you appreciate a culture—genuinely appreciate it—you're learning with people from that community. You ask first. You collaborate. You try to understand what things mean and where they come from. You make sure the original creators get credit. They share in whatever benefits come from it. You get that some things are sacred, that they're not meant to be shared outside the community. When you do engage with the work, you're amplifying their voice, not replacing it with your own interpretation.
Appropriation? It's different. You take what you want without asking. There's no collaboration. You ignore the meaning and context. Maybe you don't care enough to learn it. Maybe you just don't want to. You keep the credit. You keep the money. The original culture gets nothing. You treat sacred things like they're just aesthetic choices. You replace their voice with your version.
One builds actual connection. Real relationships. The other repeats a pattern that's very, very old. A pattern of harm.
For Curators: The Question That Matters
Here's what I want you to understand: when you curate art, you hold actual power.
You're making decisions about what gets seen. You decide whose voice gets heard. You determine which stories matter. If you choose to show an artist's work, you make them visible. You open doors. You help them reach people. You might help them make money.
That's power.
So before you decide who to include in your curation, ask yourself: Who actually benefits from me showing this work?
Let's say you're looking at artists working with Indigenous themes or traditions. Before you curate them, you have to know: Is this artist actually from that community? Or are they an outsider looking in? If they're an outsider, did they work with the community? Did they ask permission? Do they credit where they learned? When your curation happens, is the Indigenous community going to benefit? Or is it just the non-Indigenous artist getting visibility and money?
Here's a concrete scenario: You find a choreographer. Let's say they're not Indigenous. They're making beautiful dances "inspired by" Indigenous movement traditions. They never collaborated with people from those communities. Zero credit to the tradition. The dances are visually beautiful. But if you show them, if you curate them, you're using your power to amplify a non-Indigenous voice while the actual tradition stays invisible. You're participating in appropriation. Whether you intended to or not. That's how it works.
This applies to everything. A novelist writing Indigenous voice when they're not Indigenous. A musician sampling traditional music and not crediting it. A playwright writing "Indigenous stories" without consulting Indigenous communities. A visual artist taking sacred symbols and using them as decoration.
You get to choose. Choose intentionally.